Have you ever dipped your fingers in a pot of Melon Soup (Egusi)
without heating or getting it refrigerated? The next day, be sure that
your soup will become sour!!! This is possibly what could become of your
relationship and emotional feelings when ‘distance’ is involved,
especially, when this ‘distance’ is not handled with enough maturity!
I personally think it is basically foolish trying to maintain distant
relationships when the two persons involve do no wish to get married or
are not ready to settle down as husband and wife within the shortest
possible time! If your girlfriend lives in Calabar and you live in
Lagos, the burden and regular emotional pains that distant relationships
bring could be better tamed if both of you would be tying the knot as
soon as possible. On the other hand, in a situation where both of you
are still confused on the future of the relationship or there are no
serious plans for marriage on ground, you could both be deceiving
yourselves while living in constant emotional torture!!!
‘Love’, no matter how fake it is, grows when the persons that are
involved are physically present with each other to ignite the
ingredients of romance in the relationship. When romance leaves through
the door in a relationship, affection, care and attention are definitely
going to leave through the windows! ‘Love’ would become a mirage and
relationship would be recklessly abandoned and forgotten!
As partners, doing things together such as going to the cinema,
shopping, strolling and holding hands in the park, watching movies
together at home, cracking jokes and seeing the smiles on the faces of
each other go a long way in boosting romance . On the contrary, these
things are not present in distant affairs! Relationship needs physical
body contact, if truth be told. That’s the easiest way to reduce
unnecessary tension, jealousy, accusations and counter-accusations,
constant cheating and lying and all other funny things that go along
with distant affairs!!!
In
this world that we live in, where materialism and S€x are fast becoming
the foundations of most relationships, you should sincerely think about
it…whether the one you romantically call ‘your love’ is fervently
sincere with you too. I mean, phone calls and chats are just so boring
and useless without physical contact!!!
I am not a misogynist and has never been but experiences and
observations have clearly shown that ladies cheat more in distant
relationships because they are more prone to romantic pressures from
other men; some may be carried away by materialism and the pressure to
have S€x!!! This explains why you may be in Abuja, happy that you have a
loving girlfriend that lives in Lagos, not knowing that one sharp
banker with slick tongue and posh car is banging her in and out! In no
time, her care and attention for you would decrease; she would call and
text lesser and discussions on phone would become so boring! You should
know it is almost coming to an end! . If you don’t have any plans of
getting married soonest, don’t waste your time on distant affairs! I
would even suggest you use the money you spend on regular, boring and
long phone calls on online betting because you cold be wasting your
resources on a girl someone else is ‘eating’
Distant relationship is full of pains, lies, emotional trauma,
unnecessary troubles, jealousy and fear all occassioned by lack of
physical presence!
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