Why do some men lose interest in certain women after having se x? I guess you've also asked yourself this question countless times..
I get many messages from women who say that they are unhappy because their men left them for good few days or weeks after having se x.
This problem begins with the lack of understanding of the way men think.
A woman will chase a man if she likes him (in most cases) but a man can chase a woman for different reasons. A man might be chasing you because he likes you or just because he wants to have se x.
I get many messages from many confused women who tell me that some men send them messages and say that they love them then do the opposite and i usually reply saying that many men will do whatever it takes just to reach the goal of having se x.
In other words many women are too naive to realize that some men can lie, act as if they have emotions and make up so many stories just to end up having se x.
While most women usually have the goal of bonding with a partner that they love, many men seek se x and nothing else.
Now, the question is; Why do some men lose interest in women after having se x?
At this point you may have guessed that men who lose interest after having se x are the ones who wanted nothing but se x and that's correct.
But the question is, why do those men lose interest and start chasing other women?
human beings can become turned on because of psychological reasons and not physical ones.
If for example a man failed to get into a relationship with a certain woman then he will get turned on by any other woman who shares few similar features with her even if the similarity couldn't be noticed on the conscious level.
A man might get attracted to a woman who has the same eyes or nose of his favourite actress without noticing the similarities with his conscious mind.
In other words the past unfinished business can control a man's sexual desire and determine the type of woman whom he will get attracted to.
In other cases some men get physically attracted to certain women just because they want to control them, feel superior to them or because of any other psychological reason.
What can a woman do about that?
In Some traditions, Most couples never have se x before marriage and these traditions solves a very big part of the problem. If the man isn't of the commitment type and if he only wants se x then he will give up and lose hope whenever he finds that he has to commit or that the cost he will inure to have se x is too much.
In other cultures where couples could be in a relationship even if they are not married I sincerely advice women to avoid se x in the early stages in order to test the man. The man who has no goal in mind but to have se x will always be impatient and won't be able to wait for a long time.
If he wasn't allowed to reach his goal in the first few weeks then he will certainly leave and pursue another woman. by doing so you will be able to filter those who are not serious about the relationship.
Hope this helps.
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