It is no doubt that Nigerian men make
wonderful lovers; they are sweet, kind, thoughtful, maybe not very
r0mantic but r0mantic still and good in bed too. It is also no doubt
that these men are very rare to come by in Nigeria. Maybe by default or
societal conditioning, most Nigerian men are so not it; they are
egoistic, chauvinistic and make terrible husband materials. You wonder
why I think Nigerian men; at least most of them, won’t make good
husbands, read the reasons listed below:
-They Are Chauvinists: pardon
the strong word “chauvinists” but Nigerian men prefer to stick to their
bias opinion about women and their responsibilities in the home. They
take the “head” duty way too serious and often push the women aside
expecting them to follow their will and do as they say. If you marry a
Nigerian man, you will probably end up as the less important voice in
the home rather than as the partner you are to him.
– They Are Polygamous In Nature: In
Nigeria, some men believe men are entitled to as many women as they can
handle and so, they are free to marry more than one wife or have
affairs with other women. With a Nigerian man, it is never certain that
you will be the only woman in his life. To save yourself the heartbreak
of discovering c0nd0ms and hotel receipts in his pocket or worse,
finding out he has secret children, please do not marry a Nigerian man.
– They Are Not Romantic: you
want flowers, a guy to follow you to the salon, exotic lunches,
dinners, vacations, chocolates and breakfast in bed? Then, a Nigerian
man is not the man you should marry. They often consider these things as
cheesy and unnecessary. Maybe they will try on your birthday and
Valentine’s Day (that’s if they don’t come up with excuses to forget).
The most r0mantic thing some Nigerian men will ever get for you is packs
of food from an eatery or drinks and few back/foot rubs just right
before $*x.
– You Will Be A Nanny To A Grown Man: if
God blesses you with a Nigerian man and a somehow scattered one, you
are in soup. You’ve just graduated to being a nanny to a full grown man.
You will pick his socks, shirts and what not after him when he gets
back from work, even flush the toilet when he’s done. Be ready to face a
sulking man if the food is not ready on time or you try to get him to
do something for you when his favourite game or TV show is on. You will
have to pet and stroke his ego almost all the time to make him happy.
– They Have The Wife Beating Syndrome: either
by societal conditioning or home training, some Nigerian men believe it
is very normal to hit a woman; that is the only way to put them back on
track when they are wrong. It is no secret that some Nigerian men will
beat their wives and feel no regret about it; it is somehow the woman’s
fault the man is so angry to the extent he has to hit her. If you’re not
ready to lose your fine skin to the itchy palms of a man, please steer
clear of Nigerian men.
-They are also good liars. They
smoke and drink heavily and blame it on the society’s deteriorating
condition; they have to “keep body and soul together”. Many Nigerian men
have money problem; it is either they are misers or heavy spenders.
Some prefer to show off the wealth they do not possess by living way
beyond their standards. And the most annoying part is that many Nigerian
men are Mr nice guy in public and Mr stingy in their homes which you
will agree is not a very attractive trait especially in someone you want
to spend the rest of your life with.
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