A recent survey discovered that 15 percent of American men had paid for s*x at some point in their life.
The stats surprised me — they were
higher than I had expected. But then I realized that I personally know a
few men who have frequented the services of ladies of the night. A few
indulged on a bachelor’s trip to Prague, another hired a prostitute
every night on his way home from the pub, and yet another hired services
online a few times a month.
So I thought I’d ask them outright: why do you pay for s*x? The answers are way simpler than you’d imagine:
5. They want to sleep with MUCH hotter women.
“If I’m being brutally honest, the
hottest women I’ve ever f*cked have been s*x workers. I would never be
able to f*ck women who are ridiculously hot unless they were
prostitutes.”
This was the top reason they all gave. I
was surprised, since the guys I asked are all good-looking, successful
in their chosen fields, and have no problem getting dates. But they all
agreed that to sleep with stunning women, the easiest way was simply to
pay.
4. They want to be in control.
“I still want to make sure that the
woman is having a good time. But truthfully, I’m more concerned that I’m
getting what I want, since I paid for it. And because I paid for it,
I’m not afraid to ask.”
Most of them said there’s something very
hot in being able to ask for what you want in bed and get it, no
questions asked. (Although one guy did admit he paid a prostitute once
so that SHE could be in charge.) But generally, they all admitted to
being more open about what they wanted and more physically satisfied
when they paid for sex. Emotionally, of course, remains to be seen.
3. They want to indulge in a fantasy.
“I like to try things — I’m not going to
say what — that a girlfriend once told me was kinky. When I pay a
hooker, I’m not worried about what I ask for. Nothing shocks them.”
Although most of the guys I spoke to
were all single, the old cliché of men asking prostitutes for certain
“services” that would offend their wives still seems to exist. One man
said that he’d never had better oral sex in his life than with a
prostitute.
2. They want to find the quickest route to having s*x.
“Getting a prostitute is so easy: no
strings attached, you can choose the woman you want before you purchase,
then they arrive at your door. Couldn’t be easier.”
All the guys I spoke to had used
different methods of visiting prostitutes. Two used websites, another
visited a brothel, and another took a prostitute’s number from a London
phone box. But they all agreed: it was the quickest way to get sex when
they felt the urge.
1. They want to avoid complications.
“We want to have sex without all the
bullsh*t of pretending to be really interested in a girl. When you pay
for sex, you don’t have to swap numbers at the end when you know you
won’t call. You pay, have sex, she leaves. Everyone’s happy.”
Several of the men had previously had
one-night stands with girls who wouldn’t leave them alone after the
fact. They said that taking home a girl and sleeping with her seems like
a great idea … until the girl suggests meeting again or wants to start
dating or having a relationship. As embarrassed as they were to admit
it, many of them said the sure-fire way to have no-strings-attached sex
is to pay for it.
– This post originally appeared on “Your Tango”
– This post originally appeared on “Your Tango”
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