Lots of marriages fail these days as a
result of the unrealistic goals and expectations that couples set before
marriage. Many people venture into marriage for the wrong reasons; some
cannot even say why they are in it.
Some of them feel the need to get
married because their mates are doing it and they want the man they
would end up with to fit some fictional characters in their heads. These
wrong choices or criteria often make them fall into the wrong hands and
ruin their chances of being happy.
Find below some of the weird things ladies check in men before marrying them;
1. Height
This is the first thing a woman is
likely to say when you ask her about the things she desires in a man.
Every woman wants men that are tall. No one wants a short man.
Some women would even say they cannot
date men that are taller than they. Thus, when they meet men who are
tall and have one or two traits that fit their vague qualities, they
tune in and fall in love with them.
2. Well-furnished apartment
Ladies do not want to settle for less
now when they are planning for marriage. Every woman wants a man who is
successful and has different properties to show with it. Men who have
their own houses are presumed to be better than men who don’t.
These houses have to be furnished to
taste and classy for the women to fit into them. If a man does not have
this or something close enough, some women would not agree to marry
them.
3. Wealth
Every woman wants a man that can see to
her financial needs. Money is important to a lot of women out there and
they would not settle down with men who are struggling financially.
Men who cannot meet their needs may not
even make the list of suitors they would be considering. It does not
matter whether the man has some hidden demons as long as he has enough
money in his account.
4. Cars
Now, it would amaze you to discover that
some ladies would not date men who do not have a car. As soon as you
approach them on with your ‘leggedbenz’ and they do not see you holding a
car key, it is a no-no.Some ladies love comfort and would not
trade anything for it. Before you stand a chance to talk to them at all,
your appearance has to speak a ton about you.
5. R0mance
Some ladies simply love it when they
meet guys who are r0mantic; they love men who would read lines of poems
to them and make them feel like princesses. They enjoy the attention
they get from men like these and would immediately fall for their gentle
and r0mantic gestures.
As far as some of these women are concerned, the men’s ability to show love and care while being r0mantic is more than enough.
6. Citizenship
As soon as some ladies get to know the
guys asking them out are not Nigerians or they have dual citizenship,
love happens. Ladies love the concept of marrying foreigners or men who
would give them the fair chance of stepping outside the shores of this
country.
You would be shocked to discover that
some ladies would be willing to marry some men as soon as they know they
have passports to other countries.
7. Presence of six packs
Women certainly love men who are
physically fit; they believe guys that are well-built are manly and
would be able to perform better than men who are not. The presence of
six packs would make some of the ladies melt and get w.t on the spot.
They would always choose a man with a firm body over a man with a pot
belly.
8. $exual performance
Women no doubt love men whose strength
in bed can be likened to that of a stallion; they love men who can drive
them to different peaks of desire when it comes to $.xual activities.
Knowing fully well that many women end
up cheating in marriage as a result of $.x, they would rather go for men
who would make them go wild with desire and leave their bodies limp
after being satisfied.
9. Occupation
Many ladies want to get married to men
who have good jobs. They will always ask about the men’s place of work
within the first few minutes they meet and would use the details to map
out their plans about them. Men who work in oil and gas companies are
seen as better suitors as compared to those who teach.
In the same light, bankers are preferred
to mechanics. Women love the idea of being known with men who have good
jobs in the society.
10. Talent and fame
Some ladies want to marry men who are
talented and famous. It is highly ridiculous finding women who are ready
to spend the rest of their lives with certain men because of the
talents the men have and how famous they have become.
Therefore, it is not strange when you
see some women who have dreams of getting married to some artistes and
public figures they do not know personally. As long as they have talents
they like, then getting married to them is no big deal
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