Nigerian
girls seem to do things without thinking them through. Although one may
have little or no control over the people one falls in love with, a
little caution would save one from possible heartbreaks.
We really cannot place where Nigerian
girls get it wrong when it comes to love; they are so eager to jump into
love as soon as they see the men possess the qualities they have always
looked out for. They naturally assume investing their emotions into
them is the right thing to do.
As much as the heart should be tended
with love, it is essential for the ladies to be sane enough to weigh
their options in the heat of emotion. This means it is fatal to allow
your emotions rule over your thoughts.
It is wrong to hold love responsible for
your predicaments because you did not take the time to analyse things
before rushing in.
Many relationships fail because the
people who go into them do not know what they want; some base their
emotions and feelings on vague things. It is inevitable for
pseudo-relationships like that to crash.
Nigerian girls should learn to put a
rein on their emotions; it is sad to know that many of them develop
foresight only after they must have been bashed and beaten many times.
They keep making silly mistakes because they subject their emotions to
slavery misinterpreted as love.
They claim to be in love barely three
days after meeting men and drain their emotions into relationships like
that. Find below some of the mistakes Nigerian girls make when they fall
too quickly in love:
1. Go nuts on social medias
Nigerian girls do not know how to keep
certain things private. Issues relating to love life and one’s affairs
should be kept from the public especially if it is a budding
relationship.
Sadly, Nigerian girls take to their
Facebook and Instagram pages to share pictures of them and their newly
found love. These ladies throw caution to the wind and do everything
they could to make people know what is going on in their lives.
When they break up with the guys at the
end of the day, they become embarrassed because most of their friends
have tagged them with the men.
2. When they give up their dreams
As a result of the frustration many
Nigerian ladies go through before going into relationships, they tend to
lose their guards when they meet eligible men. They want to please them
at all cost and stop living their dreams in the process. Their lives
revolve around the men and they start to live for them. This is one of
the silly mistakes Nigerian girls make when they fall in love too fast.
3. They abandon their friends
Nigerian girls tend to ignore and
abandon their friends as soon as they fall in love. They make the men
all that matters in their lives and cut off from everyone.
What they do not know is that they need
these friends in their journey in life. Friends can never be substituted
with lovers; they would be the people to stand by them when times are
tough.
Some Nigerian ladies might have had a
bad fall out with their friends; however; they should not blow off
everyone around them because they are in love.
4. When they are quick to consummate the affair
Nigerian girls make this fatal mistake
when they fall in love too soon; they allow their emotions take control
and place their body needs in the way.
This often changes the definition of
relationships as the guys may lose focus the moment they hit the honey
pot. There is no point expecting much from a relationship like that
because they have explored their potentials already.
It is understandable that the body could
betray one sometimes and decide to stand against every rational
thinking nerves. Self-control should come into play then.
5. When they are quick to introduce him to their family members
Many Nigerian girls make this silly
mistake when they fall in love. They meet some new guy one minute and
they want him to meet their family members the next minute. This is
absolutely wrong; you should learn to take your time when it comes to
matters like this.
Some men are not even worth taking home
in the first place, but because the ladies are not patient enough, they
take this step before they could think it through. Some guys become pest
and would stalk you and your family members.
6. They put all their eggs into one basket
This is one grave mistake Nigerian girls
make as a result of falling heads over heels in love. They shut down
every door and refuse to make friends with other guys because they are
in love.
They should remain open and not live their lives in seclusion because they are in love with some people.
This is one of the reasons why many
brokenhearted ladies wonder where they would start from because they
must have insulted every other guy around them because they are in love.
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