If you have been finding it hard to get your woman in the mood in recent times, then these tips are for you to take note of.
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Obvious and standard f0replay moves that
women respond to are a good bet for any l0vemaking occasion, but
foreplay is not just about giving oral S3@.x:’ or loving attention to
her well-known erogenous zones.
The really good stuff has a lot more to
it. It involves her entire body, as well as her mind. Don’t get me
wrong: Chances are there are tons of things you already do to her that
she loves, and luckily for you, none of them require you to be a rocket
scientist or Dirk Diggler to figure out.
An important thing to keep in mind is
that the best f0replay is not necessarily original or adventurous, but
it is done with full attention to the job at hand (or mouth for that
matter). Here are six foreplay moves that girls chitchat and giggle
about when they’re talking about their best $exual experiences.
These six ideas are rarely done by men,
which is sad because girls love these moves so much. Remember: Whatever
you choose to do, if you do it like you mean it, your honey will be
giggling about you to her friends in no time.
1. Making Out On The Couch, High-School Style
Dry humping and “kissathons” are fun
because they take you right back to when you were a teenager and making
out was exciting and adventurous. Couch make-out sessions take the
pressure off a girl from having to take her clothes off and be ready for
S3@.x:’, allowing her to relax and enjoy the moment. Women like to be
teased. Making out with her for hours and never moving into the bedroom
will get her so turned on she’ll be wanting you more than ever before.
The rules: Use the skills you gained in
high school. Dry humping is one of the greatest turn-ons known to
mankind, because it is so suggestive without the actual skin-on-skin
touching. It has an element of driving hard for what is inaccessible.
The many layers of clothing provide the padding for the crazed writhing
that ensues a good D.H. session. Playing with your clothes on could
ordinarily be construed as lazy or immature, but not when you are doing
it deliberately. Keeping clothes on can be very S3@.x:’y.
Risky, light touching in inappropriate
places when S3@.x:’ cannot happen right then and there is very hot to
women and it warms you both up nicely for later. For example, a warm
hand up her top during a movie, or a hand down the side of her pants
while you choose a song from the jukebox at a bar gets her feeling
tingly in all the right places.
The rules: Stop! Keep her wanting: Give
her a taste of it then pull back and watch her rub up against you and
begin to purr. The trick with this little baby is she knows you can’t
have S3@.x:’. Reverse psychology is your friend; she wants what she
can’t have. By the time you get somewhere you can have S3@.x:’, she will
be tearing at your clothes like a wild woman.
Deep tongue kissing and the art of $ensual massage…
3. Deep Tongue Kissing
The long, lingering kiss that doesn’t
progress anywhere (just yet) is the sort of kiss that will moisten up
her underwear in no time flat, but is deep and long and slow. She likes
it when you savor her, and doing this gets her hot under the collar.
Deep tongue kissing is one of many
formulas to turning you both on. Apparently, we like deep tongue kissing
because it mimics S3@.x:’ — the wet, writhing, sucking, licking motions
get our juices flowing and almost always kick-start our $exual desire.
Increased saliva flow is associated with higher ar0usal, which makes
sense — the wetter the better. Save the slobbering though.
The rules: The trick with this one is to
choose the proper time and place for this long kiss, and not to
overpower her with too much tongue or speed. It is quite hard to know
when a big French kiss is going to go down well. Everyone loves a decent
“snog,” but all people are slightly different, so choose your moment
and make it good.
Instead of using the kiss as a two
second start to S3@.x:’, use it as a moment to share your passion.
Kissing is an intimate sport, creating more intimacy and closeness
between two people, whether it be an emotional closeness, a sexual one
or both.
4. Massage
When you flip her onto her stomach, and
turn her “main zones” away from you, you are saying to her, “I am not
just after the ‘prize,’ I want to make you feel good.” This will allow
her to relax and get her juices flowing more than ever. A good erotic
massage will $exualize and wake up new parts of her body, increasing the
scope of her pleasure.
The rules: Don’t put her to sleep. Massages, especially after a hard week’s work or a heavy night of drinking, can easily slip a woman into sleep mode. The trick to giving a good erotic massage is to keep it sensuous, which means taking breaks between touches to lick and kiss her, and involving her whole body. Stroke her with your whole hand and enjoy her curves while you do this.
The rules: Don’t put her to sleep. Massages, especially after a hard week’s work or a heavy night of drinking, can easily slip a woman into sleep mode. The trick to giving a good erotic massage is to keep it sensuous, which means taking breaks between touches to lick and kiss her, and involving her whole body. Stroke her with your whole hand and enjoy her curves while you do this.
The effect of the er0tic massage is that
it creates occasional deep and delicious feelings while generating
light and tickly feelings as you glide and graze your hands and fingers
over her. These tickly feelings keep the brain and skin active and
awake, while relaxing and arousing her at the same time.
Use a small amount of oil, because using
too much oil with cover the gentle friction of your hands on her skin,
and can end up giving an itchy feeling which isn’t S3@.x:’y. Be careful
where you put oil if you are using condoms, as it breaks down latex
quickly. Use long strokes going down her body, all the way to her feet.
A good place to end is on her butt. Let
her tell you with her writhing when she is ready for you to go further.
Butt massages are the absolute best, and once you start there, she won’t
want you to stop. The easiest way to encourage her arousal from a bum
massage is to include her inner thighs occasionally, and skate near her
anus and V@.g!nal lips, without actually touching them but just very
slightly brushing past them with your fingers. The tease will drive her
wild, and before you know it, she’ll be begging for more of you.
How to turn her on from a distance and more…
5. Kissing Her On The Neck
Chicks dig this. Their necks are far
more sensitive than yours. This is good news for guys who aren’t sure
what to do to get their girls hot. It is really easy to turn her on if
you kiss her neck. It works like magic.
The rules: Be sensuous and take your
time. Use a S3@.x:’y combination of soft and firm kisses, and keep the
pace on the slower side. Kissing her neck from behind is almost
guaranteed to turn her on, and you know when she turns around to face
you she is ready for more. The back of her neck and shoulders are great
places to start. Progress onto the sides of her neck, and up by her
ears, maybe working your way around to the front, near her jugular.
Small, soft, closed-mouth kisses work well for starters, but should be worked up to open-mouthed kisses. A warm, moist tongue on her throat (without slobbering all over her, of course) is the wet feeling that may just lurch her into outer space. She will probably moan a lot when you do this. Women also love being held by strong man hands, so use them while you do your thing.
Small, soft, closed-mouth kisses work well for starters, but should be worked up to open-mouthed kisses. A warm, moist tongue on her throat (without slobbering all over her, of course) is the wet feeling that may just lurch her into outer space. She will probably moan a lot when you do this. Women also love being held by strong man hands, so use them while you do your thing.
6. Turning Her On Without Touch
The brain is the largest $exual organ in
our bodies. If you really understand this concept, you can use this to
your advantage anytime you like. Include nonphysical moves such as
reading her an er0tic story, or telling her what you want to do to her
either on the phone, by writing her a note and tucking it into her
pocket, sending a text message, or emailing her. If you can get her wet
before you even touch her, you are doing very, very well.
The rules: Don’t go overboard. Use words
and actions that will force her to use her imagination instead of
giving her every detail. Touchless foreplay is a less obvious arouser
because she isn’t going to be moaning into your neck, but it is just as
effective as touching her. Her imagination will run rampant when a sexy
suggestion is put in place, so get her worked up with evocative words.
Women are often complaining about men
and all the things you do wrong when it comes to foreplay. The truth is
you guys do so many things right and we love you for it, so don’t be shy
to get creative with your foreplay moves. Men and women are quite
different creatures, and love each other in different ways, so it helps
to get tips from a girl’s perspective. Now you have six more foreplay
moves to $educe her with. Try them all and drive her wild.
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